Creative foreplay: And we tell you how

Slow down big boy - you'll get everything on the menu but let's start with a little appetizer... is the line that pops in my mind when I started doing this little piece on Creative foreplay ideas! After all, sometimes, we all get so used to the routine of our sex life that you really forget that our sex life is quite similar to a fire, and if you don’t stoke, it’s going to die!

How often are you faced with a scenario like this…She pushed me down on the couch on my back and slowed me down. My brains told me …boy slow down, but everything in me was telling me otherwise! She put her forefinger over my mouth as to silence anything I was about to say. In a mere whisper, she nibbled my ear and said, "Slow down big boy - you will get everything on the menu but let's start with a little appetizer".

Cliched, I may sound, but I do fall back on the oft used saying – Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus…just like the way, a man can go from 0-60 in under 10 seconds, when it comes to us women, we need time to get warmed up to the idea before we get on the race. A quickie is a good start to go, but if it’s mind-blowing sex that is on your mind, then creative foreplay is where you should bet your money in.

And we bring you a low down on what a creative foreplay can be all about….

Meet your man/woman…

There's nothing sexier than a spot of role-playing to heat things up, but if you're not ready to dress in a tweed skirt and relive his teacher fantasies just yet, try simply 'meeting' him in a bar. Pretend you're strangers, chat each other up, and if things go well, invite him home... It's a hot way to begin the night

Talk dirty

Describe what you will do to him in graphic detail. Dirty lingo is a top notch turn on. If you're having trouble, reverse roles. Ask him questions like 'What do you plan to do to me? Where will you kiss me?' and let him take over.

Be a tease

Drive your partner crazy with desire by slipping your hand inside his jeans while you're waiting in line, or at the movies. Give him a hither thither look in the changing room. A brief stroke will have him throwing you against the nearest surface the minute you get back home. If you guys can survive that long!

Relive your teenage years

The last time you indulged in heavy petting in the back seat of your car was back in your college days. So what stops you from doing that now. Be a tease when your partner’s driving.

You don’t have to go overboard, just a little play of fingers around the thigh and the forearm should have your partner craving for the release. Just be careful, if you indeed have to make a quick stop, do it in an alley away from prying eyes. You don’t want an audience.

Treat your partner as a delectable dessert

The more you treat your partner as something you eat and not something you dominate the more erotic and heightened the pleasure will be for the both of you. Use your fingers to push your lover to the limits. If you want to add a bit of fun to your dessert element, try chocolate frosting with little cherries to add a bit of spice to your delectable dessert.

Bring in the armaments!

Don't be afraid to experiment with sex toys and oils because both can enhance sexual pleasure considerably for both parties. And if this is your first time with the toys, then just the thrill of the toys working their magic would have you in the throes of a big O

Get wet and get dirty

The shower power has always worked its magic. Stand under the shower and take time to give each other a sensual massage. Remember Julia Roberts – Richard Gere in Pretty Woman…well, so if you are not in a mood for a bathtub romance, a shower would do the trick.

Let fantasies tide your night

Indulge him with a sexy striptease...Slip in some soft music and be his Shakira or Beyonce. And guys if your partner’s into pole dance, then go for it. So what if you don’t have a pole. It’s all about imagination and making the moves.

Play a naughty game

Queen Sheeba says…take off your shirt….Queen Sheeba says….off with your belt! Indulge in a naughty game to up your foreplay quotient. Or you could always resort to strip poker if a card game is in your mind. And if you are in a mood to watch some kinky porn, then indulge in it. It might sound kind of pervy, but it does kick in the mood of foreplay. At the end of the day, it’s all about stoking the fire…

Source: Meenakshi S /India Syndicate

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